Some Toastmasters jump in
feet first. They sign up to speak and are active in their clubs from the
outset. Other members, however, are reluctant to participate fully or
regularly. They may have practical reasons for less active
participation; some feel intimidated by the abundance of experienced
speakers in the club, while others are particularly frightened about
public speaking.
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Clubs
should not let any member slip through the cracks. We must encourage
active and balanced participation by everyone, while understanding that
each of us learns at our own pace. Try these proven strategies to help
you engage all your club members:
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Methods
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What¡¦s the Best Method for
Filling Meeting Roles?
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Some clubs allow members to voluntarily fill club roles, while others
instruct the vice president education (VPE) to prepare an assignment
schedule. Some clubs use a combination of the two methods. Advantages
and disadvantages exist for both the voluntary and non-voluntary
systems. The volunteer method allows people the freedom to fill roles as
they see fit; however, this usually leads to an imbalance of
participation ¡V some members tend to volunteer quite often and others
may not sign up to participate as often as they should.
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In one club that uses the
volunteer system, the VPE tracks each member¡¦s participation and plots
the information on a chart. Those who are not participating fully are
contacted privately and asked if they¡¦d like to participate more. Thus,
the volunteer system requires careful tracking of member participation.
The advantage of the VPE assigning meeting roles on a schedule is that
everyone is rotated, so everyone participates equally. At least, that¡¦s
how it is supposed to work.
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My experience with this
method is that invariably those who do not wish to participate actively
will find a way to back out; they will cancel or just not show up
regularly. Juggling this system can frustrate the VPE, the Toastmasters
of the respective meetings and others, because the schedule often
undergoes last-minute changes.
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For
clubs that assign roles, consistent communication between the VPE and
membership is vital. Merely placing names on a schedule and distributing
it with expectations of full participation is seldom effective. Members
must be notified of their assignments well in advance and later
reminded. In my club, the schedule is sent out at least one week before
the meeting and again one day before. Also, members on the schedule must
confirm their participation to the VPE and Toastmaster. Thus, in order
to be effective, this system requires two-way communication. Whatever
role-filling method your club chooses, be aware of the potential
pitfalls and act to alleviate or eliminate them.
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Mentors
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Assign mentors who can help and encourage.
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It is important to promptly assign a mentor to each new member. These
mentors must take an active interest in the participation and
progress of their mentees. In most clubs, a few members do not
participate regularly. I recommend that their assigned mentors speak
with them privately (preferably face to face and away from the
club meeting place) and find out why. Some members have good reasons for
not being active, such as heavy work loads, job changes, family
commitments and temporary emergencies. These reasons should be
respected. We should try not to place excessive pressure on these
members, because it may backfire and cause them to leave.
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Each
of us is entitled to learn at our own pace. On the other hand, if the
member is not actively participating out of fear of failure or
intimidation, the mentor and club leadership should actively offer
encouragement.
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Mindset
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Establish a club climate that fosters learning and growth.
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Create a club atmosphere in which one is not expected to be near perfect
in the performance of speeches and club meeting roles, in the way one
would expect on opening night of a stage play. Instead, instill the
mindset that your club is more like an ongoing rehearsal than the play
itself. And like ongoing rehearsals, your club should be a comfortable
place that encourages its members to work out the kinks in their
speeches, try new things, hone their skills, and, yes, maybe look
awkward at times in the process. However, none of the above should be
interpreted as an excuse for lack of preparation. Members should
always prepare adequately for each assigned role.
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Your goal should be to
create a relaxed and inviting climate, one that encourages balanced
participation and where no one is made to feel inadequate. Twenty-five
years ago, my Toastmasters mentors created a similar mindset for me.
Consider my story:
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Metamorphosis
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Becoming a strong speaker took patience and perseverance.
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Impressed by my public speaking ability, a member of my current club
nicknamed me ¡§Mr. Smooth.¡¨ Believe me, neither I nor anyone else is born
to appear polished and professional in front of an audience. For
example, 25 years ago I gave my first Ice Breaker, and about halfway
through I lost my place and froze up like an iceberg; I nervously stared
into space for what seemed like minutes until I regained my composure. I
was quite embarrassed, but the club gave me the encouragement to move
forward. Members told me that what I perceived as a disaster was merely
a minor bump on the road.
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In my early speeches, I was
overly animated; my arms were flailing all over the place. As I worked
toward more refined, purposeful gestures, I felt and appeared quite
awkward at times. However, with practice and guidance from the club, my
gestures gradually became more controlled and purposeful.
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The
moral of my story is that it required time and focused effort coupled
with many moments of awkwardness ¡V a lot of ¡§rehearsal¡¨ ¡V for me to
become Mr. Smooth. It also required a club climate in which I was not
expected to be perfect, and my development as a speaker and leader was
encouraged and mentored.
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Measuring Up
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Create fair and fruitful activities.
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It may be a cliché, but it¡¦s true: Your only competition is you and you
alone. New members, please do not feel that you are competing with the
experienced members of your club. Instead, absorb their knowledge
and experience.
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Clubs also need to think
about how to best encourage success in club activities. All too often,
the most entertaining, but not necessarily best delivered Table Topic,
speech or evaluation wins top prize at a club meeting, or the ribbon
goes to a popular club member. However, it is detrimental to the club¡¦s
overall well-being when one member continues to win most of the ribbons,
or the awards become a popularity contest. Each club must offer
incentives for improvement, pose challenges and avoid whitewash
evaluations to the more advanced or popular members. All of us can help
encourage new or shy members and instill confidence in them by
fostering an atmosphere in which anyone has a chance to win a ribbon.
Implement the following guidelines for the voting process at each
meeting:
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1. Consider
each individual performance on its own merits instead of
measuring each participant against the rest of the group.
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2. Consider
which individual exceeded his or her personal level of experience the
most.
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3.
Consider who best
meets the Toastmasters guidelines in that particular competition.
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Practice these three suggestions and every member will feel that they
have an equal chance of becoming recognized for their efforts.
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Me
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Yes, you are, and the audience is on your side. How many times have we
heard a scheduled speaker say, ¡§I¡¦m just not ready¡¨ and then back out of
giving a scheduled speech? In fact, statements like this often imply
underlying anxiety; the speaker fears suffering failure or embarrassment
in front of an audience. This brings up the ¡§rehearsal¡¨ issue again. If
the club atmosphere can resemble a rehearsal more than the ¡§play,¡¨ it
reduces the sense of intimidation. New members, it will help you if, in
the beginning, you talk about subjects you care about and know well.
This will make preparation less difficult and delivery more comfortable;
plus it will boost your confidence.
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I can¡¦t tell you how many
times I have heard speakers tell me they were quite nervous during their
presentation, yet sitting in the audience I could barely detect
nervousness at all. Understand that a speaker perceives his or her
nervousness, mistakes and mishaps to be much more noticeable than they
really are. One piece of advice that I give to new members is this:
¡§When you get up to speak, don¡¦t think the audience is looking at you;
instead, think that they are looking with you! Almost all of us
have been through those first few nerve-wracking speeches and we are
empathetic. Believe that the audience wants you to succeed and you are
more likely to succeed.¡¨
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No one
should be made to feel embarrassed by a performance in front of the
group, and there is no such thing as a failing speech in the
Toastmasters club environment. We are here to support and encourage our
members to move forward. Follow the advice and guidelines in this
article and your club will retain and better serve its membership.
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Robert A. Richert, DTM, is a member of the Helmsmen Toastmasters
in Huntington Beach, California. He is a professional artist
specializing in landscapes and seascapes. Reach Robert at
www.richertart.com.
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