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為何留? |
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譯者:高珮萱 Melissa, Hsin Chu |
Why I
Stay 作者:Tracy Keller |
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Awards
or not, this member is a winner in Toastmasters. Since
joining Toastmasters in 2002, I have given more than 30 prepared
speeches and entered numerous speech contests. I can’t win a title or a
“Best Speaker” ribbon if my life depends on it. I still keep speaking.
I have
read stories in the Toastmaster magazine about how improved speaking
skills enable members to land better jobs and realize their dreams. My
income has gone down by 10 percent and I don’t know what my dreams are.
I still keep coming. I have
given speeches and Table Topics presentations peppered with plenty of
ums, ahs and you knows. Many times my cheeks burn red and cold sweat
beads pop out on my forehead. I still keep at it.
Why?
Because since joining Toastmasters, I have gone from being unable to
speak in front of a group without a script to being able to (mostly)
give five- to 15-minute speeches without so much as an index card to
guide me. My sonic-speed vocal cadence has slowed to a rate accessible
to the human ear. There
was a time when I wanted to quit. Then I remembered that at my first
three club meetings, I could not utter a word. Now I regularly stand up
and speak off the cuff as a participant in Table Topics. Making
announcements at the lectern as a club officer poses no problem.
While
my professional situation is currently in tatters, the practice of
speaking and thinking on my feet allows me to better articulate my
thoughts. I may be between jobs at the moment, but I sound and act like
a professional. With
Toastmasters helping me take the fear out of talking, my self-esteem
improved. Now I can stand up for myself – firmly but gently – in
personal and work situations. When I felt wronged or criticized in the
past, I wouldn’t say anything – not because I felt I deserved such
treatment, but because I couldn’t think of an appropriate response fast
enough. Now I can, thanks to Toastmasters.
By
taking on leadership activities within my club, my confidence has grown.
I can even facilitate communication among people with opposing
viewpoints. I am not afraid to gently push people to do what they need
to do. Through the process of delivering evaluations, I can now express
my thoughts diplomatically as opposed to too bluntly.
Every
time I give a speech, I am pushing myself toward my goals, whether it is
another degree of certification or becoming a better speaker.
My
creativity has blossomed through brainstorming sessions for speech
topics. My brain power has expanded by doing research for my speeches.
My comfort level has increased as I have shared my own thoughts,
interests and experiences in the gentle, supportive atmosphere of my
club. I
joined Toastmasters not to become a professional speaker, as many of my
fellow club members have. I have no desire to become a life coach or a
corporate trainer. My reason for joining was simple: I wanted to become
a better public speaker for those life events that require it. Should I
have to give a eulogy, speak out about a community issue or give a toast
at a birthday party, I wanted to be prepared.
If
called on, I now readily get up to speak in front of a large group. I’m
still far from perfect, but I’ve improved enough so that a
non-Toastmaster cannot see my flaws. That is one of the hidden benefits
of Toastmasters: Even if you can’t join the best in the world at the
International Speech Contest, you’ll seem like a great orator to the
average person. To everyone who tells me, “You sounded great up there,”
I tell my secret: “Join Toastmasters.”
I have
just completed my Advanced Communicator Bronze award and will now become
the president of my club and join my area’s advanced club. I realize I’m
in Toastmasters for the long haul.
Competing at the International Speech Contest is not what I hoped to get
out of my Toastmasters experience – but you never know. 2011 might be my
year! Tracy
Keller, ACB, is a member of the Back Talk Toastmasters in Peabody,
Massachusetts. |
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