How many of you don’t like to
have pleasant surprises in your life? Raise your hand. OK, nobody!
That means I’ve chosen a good topic!
I love to eat oysters. Raw
oysters with cocktail sauce and a hint of lemon. Sounds
good, doesn’t it? Well, I had a friend, Christine, who hated them. She
thought they were gross. Since I was young, I’ve
always thought of Chinese herbal medicine as unscientific. If I got
sick, I would always go to a hospital or clinic that practiced western
medicine.
But it just so happened, I had an allergic reaction that caused me to
sneeze in the mornings. And it was a condition western medicine could
only control, rather than cure. So my grandmother said “James, go to a
doctor that practices Chinese herbal medicine.” And I said, “No!”
“James, go to…” “No!” But then I thought to myself, I’ll try Chinese
medicine, and if it works great, if not, at least my grandmother would
stop… nagging me.
So I went to the doctor, he
looked at me… felt my pulse… really didn’t seem to do much. Then he
gave me a prescription for dirt… sorry, for Chinese herbal medicine that
looked like dirt. When I got home, I poured myself a glass of water to
take the medicine with… and then another glass of water… and a glass of
juice… just in case the medicine really tasted like dirt. After taking
the medicine for a couple of weeks, however, my condition not only
improved, my allergic reaction was gone. That’s some pretty powerful
dirt, if you ask me.
Life has a funny way of
teaching us things. Eleven years ago, my parents asked if I would like
to go study in Canada. At the time, I had just gotten into a top high
school in Taiwan. All of my friends were here, and everything was
familiar. Canada, on the other hand, would be different and full of
uncertainty, but also exciting and full of potential. Maybe the
potential to meet beautiful, blonde girls in bikinis. Don’t pretend
like you haven’t thought of this, guys!
Anyways, after much
deliberation, I chose the unfamiliar but potentially more rewarding
path, to study in Canada. And it paid off more than I could have
expected. I made even more friends in my new home, and became president
of the Taiwanese student club at my university. I learned new language,
new culture, and new perspective. I also learned that it’s too cold in
Canada for women to wear bikinis all that often.
Contest Chair, fellow
Toastmasters and guests, the moral I learned from these experiences is
to give yourself the chance to be pleasantly surprised. Be open to
trying new things, and don’t be afraid of change. When you jump at the
opportunities you get, you’d be surprised at how often you’d be
surprised – in a good way.
Now, this isn’t just limited to
things like food or medicine. It also includes people. Is there
a coworker at your office that you’ve always kept distance from because
he always wears the strangest-looking ties? Or because the way he
speaks is really funny? Well, maybe this person likes golf just like
you do, or Korean TV drama just like you do, or Jay Chou just like you
do, or money just like I do. But you would never find out, if you never
talk to or interact with the person. You would never find out, if you
never give yourself the chance to find out.
So give yourself the chance to
be pleasantly surprised. We’ve all heard this message in some form, but
not too many people are really open to fresh experiences. But you know
who’s really good at trying new things? Children are. As we get older
and supposedly wiser, perhaps we start to think we already know what to
expect from life. We think we have it all figured out, only to look
back one day and realize how little we knew at the time, and how much we
can still be surprised by what life has to offer. So go ahead and break
up your routine. It doesn’t have to be something drastic, like quitting
your job, or eating fried grasshoppers. But take a new road home from
work tomorrow. Go to a restaurant you’ve never been to tomorrow.
Here’s a quote that I like very
much. It’s by the French Writer Marcel Proust. He wrote, “The true
voyage of discovery exists not in seeking new landscape but in having
new eyes.” It doesn’t always have to take something new to surprise
us. Our daily lives are full of things waiting to be discovered with
new eyes and enjoyed. So let yourself be pleasantly surprised. Just say yes to things. Taste things, sample things, try things. And love to try things. Treat life like an adventure. Be like children. Life is like ice cream. There are too many delicious flavors to be ordering vanilla all the time. That quote was mine.
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